I let my spouse know about not dumping on the kitchen table but onto the new table six feet away. I was met with a look like " you want what? ",a sigh, then finally a resigned okay.
After all it's not to Siberia and a valid request.
So far other than a verbal response- it's still drop 'em & dump 'em _on the wrong table!
They say it takes 30 days to form a habit. Check back and I'll let you know if the yes was really a yes!